Some may say, “it’s a man’s world”. Well, is it really?
I am usually of the habit of giving out tips and tricks on how to win back some time with your ex girlfriend but for today’s post, I decided to change things up a bit. This one is for all the gorgeous ex-girlfriends out there who have probably chanced upon this article while searching for a good way to snag back the one that got away or the wild stallion that you just can’t seem to tame.
One thing I have learned from all my years of being a guy is that there are certain things that ANY girl can use to get a dude’s attention, particularly if they have recently split up. That’s right: there are actual surefire techniques available to any sassy woman with a little confidence to win back your man for another shot at “happily ever after”.
So, let me take you on a guide to manipulating your ex-boyfriend into coming back.
OK this one has got to be obvious. If there in one thing that men are hard-wired to NOT ignore it’s sex. In fact, I would say that it is almost impossible for dudes to not fall prey to a post-breakup romp after some time has passed, and in some cases even hours after shit goes down. I’ve seen how you girls can get pretty creative with this but usually the classic “just one last time” or “one for the road” lines work quite well. It works because guys really have no way to distinguish between their logical mind and their sexual urges, particularly when a member of the opposite sex is advancing upon them. All you have to do is get them alone somewhere and unleash the sultry vixen within you and before you know it, you’ll be fighting about all the same problems again… like you never even left!
Yeah, yeah it may seem cliche: the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Well, it’s true. Guys love a great meal and when used correctly, it does soften-up even the “sternest” of dudes. After a fight, send him a pizza and ask the delivery guy to meet you down the road from his house and pay for it there. Then proceed to decorate the slices with some ketchup (or whatever condiment he likes) and write out “I’m sorry :(” in the cutest way you can think of. Yup, even something this simple can turn some of the biggest issues into the size of a gnat and you will be back into his arms, just like that.
3. Admitting you’re wrong
That’s right, sometimes girls can be pretty prideful. Yup, guys are also super full of themselves at times but if you made a stand out of pride and your ex-boyfriend dumped you because of it then maybe you should reevaluate the situation. The thing is that everyone has their moments and acting like an jerk, even though you didn’t mean it, hurts people. If you have done something wrong to someone, the quickest and easiest way to diffuse a situation is to call it out and admit that you screwed up. You won’t believe how many times this has satiated my own ill feelings towards someone, whether it was my girlfriend or not. Sometimes it truly is as simple as saying sorry and meaning it… or at least make it look like you mean it!
There you go ladies… 3 simple ways to manipulate your man back into your arms. Guys are really simple beasts. There is no use in complicating the issue. Just use one of the suggestions above and go with it!
Do you have any tips on how to win back a boyfriend after a breakup? Let us know in the comments below!